2.1.36 - 3 - Greyabbey and the Sun

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Just before we left...


Two years ago, the boys and I went to Saul where the ancient site was and we walked about, looking at the wells and laughing. Oisin had just come back from Singapore with us and we were finally together for Christmas. The year before we had gone to Sliabh Gullion. We always end up in the ancient sites and it was so beautiful. The light of the day and then Ghin flew his drone for the first time. It was soooo stunning, to be able to see the place as a bird would see it.

I don't think I have ever seen the site so stunning. The air was still. We were content in our being. We spent a little over an hour there. Then a tour of the abbey took place and we went along for it. These dedicated tour guides who loved the site clearly, just talking about the life which the monks would have had there. But also what an asshole John De Courcey was. Were all people assholes back in the day? The monks did live a privileged life. The life expectancy was thirty years longer than someone who didn't live in the abbey. That was pretty stunning. In the end, the head of the clan torched the abbey in the 16th century so that it could no longer be used by the invading English. What privations his place has known. Fighting the English like forever. 

The dream of the holidays are over. Over, over, over. I need to start doing things I said I would. Today after the run, I'll start the finances and elements. 

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